Beauty Is on the Inside
I gave up my dating life to raise my kids, and I'd do it again. But it's a quiet kind of lonely, looking for someone real when you're older and you've finally worked out what 'real' means.
Marriage, separation, divorce and parenting — rebuilding when family life does not go to plan.
I gave up my dating life to raise my kids, and I'd do it again. But it's a quiet kind of lonely, looking for someone real when you're older and you've finally worked out what 'real' means.
Before everything got complicated, painful and heavy — there was a free-range childhood of beaches, footy and dogs, and I loved every bit of it.
I spent years just fighting for the right to be their dad. Then I spent the rest learning that being a good one is harder than winning the access ever was.
Nobody hands you a manual for rebuilding a family. You work it out one ordinary day at a time.
Becoming a visitor in your own children's lives, and worrying about a world you no longer have any power to change.
If you've never been in it, the exit looks obvious. From the inside, it's the hardest door in the world.